Mastectomies are a standard recommendation for stage three cancers, and many women have an understandable reluctance to take such a drastic step. It is well-known that medical professionals were somewhat “mastectomy-happy” in the past when it came to treating breast cancer, and this has perhaps left a legacy of suspicion about the medical profession and its continued reliance on “cutting, burning and poisoning” as the normal methods for fighting this deadly disease. African-American women in particular appear to have a lot of skepticism towards the medical community, as 25% diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer refuse these conventional treatments.
The point is that while there is some hope for a cure once things reach stage 3, many women feel that the amount of physical and emotional suffering they will have to go through if they accept conventional treatment are just not worth the effort. From a psychological standpoint, it can also be incredibly stressful dealing with the fear and uncertainty that accompanies this stage, and many women may experience a sense of relief when they decide to simply accept their fate rather than wage a fight that may be in vain.
A family affair
Of course, the decision to forego (or perhaps end) breast cancer treatment obviously affects not just individuals, but entire families. In some cases, family members may actually see the decision not to accept treatment as a kind of rejection, as a sign that the wife, mother, daughter or sister they love so much is not willing to put up a fight to try and stay with them. In other instances, however, refusal of treatment may be a relief for family members, who will not have to deal with so much uncertainty while watching someone they care about suffer from a combination of the ravages of cancer and the sometimes-overwhelming side effects of conventional breast cancer treatment.
A matter of dignity
Beyond the physical suffering associated with “cutting, burning and poisoning,” for many women it all comes down to a matter of self-control and dignity. Passing away peacefully at home or in hospice, medicated for pain and surrounded by loved ones and compassionate caregivers, is an alternative that appeals to a lot of women who don’t want to spend their last months or years as a medical specimen being passed from doctor to doctor. For many woman, a dignified death is preferable to a life filled with uncertainty that has most all of its quality.


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